i have watched my house fall apart this weekend.
katey and i got into a brawl for the first time in our million year relationship, and then our new roommate decided it was okay to throw all of the stuff that belonged to katey and i in trash bags with trash. Then proceeding to throw them in our newly cleaned room. I have to admit, at first, i was ready to literally go downstairs and throw more punches, but instead katey went first and ended up getting everything thrown on her. The problem escalated way out of hand and names were thrown around like we were back in middle school. I will never in my life be more horrified at the way things were handled. I am absolutely disgusted.

Cory: I love love love you and hope this house figures it shit out. I've already accepted your apology, so no worries.

Now, I will say that in my life I have never gone so far as to belittle my own self. I have never thought it appropriate to convince someone to fuck up someone elses shit. Sure, i've fucked some people over and I've been a bitch, but I'm ever respectful of others property. I admit, once again, that i went into our new roommates room to try to find a sandal. It was rude on my part to not ask, but I was in a hurry and assumed she could trust me enough to let me use her sandal. This too was blamed on katey after I stated that i was the one at fault. I then searched the house for almost an hour looking for my cell phone. Everyone helped except for a few. I found it in the top dresser drawer of the new roomie with alarms turned off and the phone on silent. hmmmm, but i'm not making accusations that could have very well been my fault.

The situation was partly resolved, but no apologies have been made. Pride, although important and something we all have, is never something that should override a needed apology. It seems that everything has cooled down, but who knows how long that will last. I would seriously love to find a roommate who isn't in this house to fuck us over. That'd be fucking tightttttt.